My boyfriend and I are together for 3 years now and we love each other a lot. But since the first date, he didn’t kiss me (like lovers do). During normal daylight I get lots of little kisses on my cheek or mouth, but without tongue. He also keeps it very simple when we have sex. No kisses on my body, no stroking, touching - just the physical act. After several conversations where I explained my feelings and wishes, he started penetrating my nipples and between my legs (with his hand) for a couple of minutes, staying in a lying position. I on my side always tried to make it as wonderful as possible for him what he really enjoys. I think it is very unfair of him. I just want to be pampered once in a while like I do it to him (every time). His answer to my questions was that he is not the type of person to do the things I wish.
So I think, the Problem is, that my friend is so much afraid to loose me that he is so jealous on the one hand and on the other hand he avoids emotional contact to me like kissing etc. What do you think and what can I do?
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