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Overnight loss of sexual desire/horniness

By Anonymous January 11, 2011 - 9:47pm
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Hello. I am 23yrs old female- virgin. I have never been in a relationship not bcoz i dont want to be in one just bcoz i havent found the right one. Before I begin with my issue, I would like to mention that I have always been horny.. from schooldays... university.. or whenever I meet an interesting guy.. I get wet.. feel horny... fantasize creative things abt my sexlife when i find the right guy whom i will end up marrying with. Few months back, I met this very attractive guy and i used to feel damn horny even when he used to stare or touch my hand for instance. It used to get wet just by a thought of his. We became good frds and did get physical.. in terms of feeling each other.. hugging..kissing.. n my body used to go out of control. I m sure everyone goes through this phase. All this actually happened for around 2-3weeks

Now my major concern is… when one day all of a sudden I stopped feeling horny (around dec 2009). From that day until today (its been nearly 13 MONTHS)… I don’t feel horny… Its just gone all of a sudden… It is unbelievable!! I understand its common..
But here I m still a virgin.. I am someone who has always felt horny naturally.. without having to watch porn movie.. This whole thing has really freaked me out..I am really scared abt it… I normally get upset.. snap at ppl.. I m irritated.. I don’t get wet even after watching a romantic love scene … It’s a major concern!! Have I lost it forever?? I have consulted a doctor.. it hasnt worked.. I have hypothyroidism from childhood and all my reports are normal.. that has never been a barrier.. Why did it all go all of a sudden?? I have tried different ways to get it back but non worked!! I feel so dead and lifeless!! I would appreciate suggestions from you on this.

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