I am a 45 femaie an I have already went through the change, 3 years ago. About a week ago I started getting pains in my right side. The come and go lasting about 10 seconds. They make me bend over. Then they are gone, I am not sick they don't go down or around to my back or anything. At first it was just once but it happen 3 times today. I feel tired but that could be from not sleeping well due to stress.