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please i want to know if someone can use his hand to dis virgin a lady because my girlfriend is worry

By December 3, 2011 - 12:50am
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Hi Anonymous,

Thank you for your question. Sexual intercourse would be "de-virginizing" your girfriend as this would break her hymen or more often referred to as "cherry" which will cause her to bleed. In many cultures, breaking the hymen is considered not being a vigin anymore. So, the real answer is it depends as you can break the hymen using your hands. I hope this helps answer your question. If she is concerned, perhaps she is not ready for sex and waiting for her to be more comfortable with the sex and/or foreplay can wait.

If you have further questions, please feel free to ask.


December 3, 2011 - 10:46am
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