My husband and I have been married for a year and a half now, and I've begun to feel that he would rather watch explicit cartoons than have sex with me. The frequency of our sex has decreased dramatically ( which I understand, will happen due to circumstances.), but that isn't quite the problem I'm having. When I make it known that I want to be with him, later I catch him masturbating to these animations instead. We have discussed/argued over this topic many a time, and every time he says he will stop, he doesn't. I am unsure of how to compete with a cartoon character. Is my body not good enough for him? What should I do with myself?