My boyfriend of almost 3 years no longer wants to have sex with me, I have caught him watching porn a lot I have asked him to stop, he tells me he has but our sex life is really suffering, he tells me he loves me and wants to marry me. We both are in our mid 50's, I am a very sexual person, I need the kissing and hugging, at this point I am ready to walk out! I know he also masturbates while watching porn. This really hurts me. And when we have sex he does not seem to be with me.