im 17 and was molested for zhree years. its against my religion to have sex before marriage. I might have been raped at a stage and wasnt totally certain. So I avoidied finding out and just ingnored it. I am now in a serious relationship and would like to know if I am still a virgin. I know I am young but I cant be in a relationship because it leads to marrige and I cant get married if I am not a virgin. I have never had concentual sex before and my my parents dont know about this so the question is can I see the doctor without them because knowing and if I do will I have to explain to him and will he have to go to the police with this information? also its been bothering me lately more then usual, I feel like have to know because this determines my relationships . is it best that I live my life not knowing or just find out and stop this wondering?
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