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Waybeyondfedup worried about how my fraternal twin sister is coping with our mother's death and especially over this past week for sure

By May 20, 2016 - 3:50pm
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​​​​​​​Its pretty much a mo now since her death and everything happened to leading up to it.  sI mean we should be getting over the initial shock of it and getting back to normal.  Well, of course our new normal. Have to say that I’m really not worried about my father about this because hes not going to change.  Still I’m more worried about my fraternal twin sister more because shes more like our mom and that includes our dad as well.  Whom takes care of everyone/thing before herself.  In which I do get, but then don’t.  I mean shes had her issues with certain things and etc.  In which I’m not going into on here because whats the point of getting into on her.

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Hello and thank you for sharing your question.
What is your number one concern for your twin sister right now?
Are you concerned that her coping methods are unhealthy? Do you wish she would focus on her own needs instead of only taking care of everyone else? If so, which of her needs is she neglecting?
Are you worried she is channeling her grief in an unhealthy way?
How do you want to help her the most?

May 21, 2016 - 10:13am
(reply to fchacon)

I’m back with even more.

Basically, she went back to work when she did (couple wks after). At first, it wasn’t a issue until this past wk. When one of her friend from college went into the hospital because of inflammation in her. Then, everything started to spiraled, spl (spelling) for her. Well, not for her work. In which she mentioned opened to doing the support group at Valley Home Care and she called. But hasn’t called back to found out more about. At the same time shes also showing signs of her moodiness as well. I have no clue if its general or something underline. In which she had a little cold again, last wk. By the way shes the maid of honor for one of her best friends wedding and everything that ideals. Her friend is like her with her mom’s cancer (breast) battle.

Thinks thats everything and well at least that I can both remember and think of.

Well get back to if I have anything else to add to this.

May 21, 2016 - 12:27pm
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