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What can I do to get my sexual needs taken care of without cheating?

By May 25, 2011 - 1:09am
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I am a 25 yr old female. I have a VERY HIGH sex drive!! I think about sex more then anything else. My boyfriend on the other hand is 41 yrs old and has a VERY LOW sex drive. When we have sex he always gets his and I am stuck there to finish myself or just try and ignore that I am still wanting more.I cheated on my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years because of this problem. We are now back together and my sex drive is still here. I love my boyfriend to much to put him threw hell again so cheating is not a option. What can I do?

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Just me,

If cheating is not an option (good for you, this should never be an option) and you want to fulfill your sex needs, take a trip to the adult store and find some goodies to keep you busy.

Are you concerned with being so addicted to sex? You mentioned thinking about it ALL the time-- It sounds like you may also benefit from a sex therapist that can help ease some of your thoughts and focus all that sexual energy into something else.

Let me know what your thoughts are,


May 25, 2011 - 6:22am
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