I have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years. We get along really well. I love him and I know he loves me, he respects me, is always kind to me and SAYS im sexy. For the first 6 months we had sex around 3 times a week and over the past year it has become less and less frequent. Now we have it around once a month. I am quite a sexual person but I'm also not very confident with my body. Ive tried talking about it with him and telling him I often feel like sex but i dont like instigating it because sometimes he gently pushes me away and I feel rejected. He said sometimes he just doesnt feel like it. he said hes not a very touchy person. I dont know what to do because I'm repressing my sexual desires. Hes nine years older than me, hes 34. Hes fit and healthy, we both are. I have thought he may not feel confident in bed because hes had less sexual partners than I have and hes older but over the past year when we have had sex I've made a point of showing him I enjoyed it. I dont want to hurt his feelings or make him feel pressured for sex. I also dont want to break up with him, if it wasnt for this issue we would have the most perfect relationship. I need to do something because its driving me crazy, I go to bed at night hoping he will make a move and he doesnt and I'm left feeling unsatisfied and undesireable.
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