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What happened to our sex life?

By May 12, 2010 - 10:28am
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My boyfriend of 6 months seems to have lost interest in sex. When we first met, we couldn't keep our hands off it each other. That's slowly been dying down and now we've had sex only once in the past month. He told me once he tends to be less sexual after the beginning of a relationship, but I didn't realize it would be this extreme. We're only in our 20s so I feel like we should still be in our sexual prime. I have no complaints about other aspects our relationship- we've been getting closer emotionally and he's actually very physically affectionate, as long as it's not sexual. In fact he consistently chooses cuddling over sex. I just think it's unsual because he's usually a very sexual guy- he's been with a LOT of women before me and early in our relationship he was very sexually aggressive. I guess I'm afraid our relationship is losing passion and he's getting bored with me. I tried to bring it up to him and he said he's happy with the way things are...should I bring it up again? Assume it's just fizzling out? I don't know what to do!

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