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Why won't it go in? Am I a virgin?

By June 20, 2011 - 7:33am
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My boyfriend of a year and half and I have tried to have sex 4 times. But each time his peinus would not go in to my vagina . It will rub up against it , but it will never go in . I was woundering why? Is there something I can do about it ? And am I a virgin still? PLEASE HELP!!

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Hi Wrayy girl,

If your boyfriends penis has never been able to go in, then you are most likely still a virgin. It may be difficult for you because you're so focused on getting it in, that you may not be lubricated enough on your own to help it ease in.
One thing that can be useful when you're having a difficult time penetrating is to use lubricant-- and don't be afraid to use lots of it. It will make it easier to insert it and more pleasurable considering it will be your first time.

Hope this helps!

June 20, 2011 - 8:21am
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