We have been together 5 years, engaged 2. The past 2 years our sex life went downhill. I will try and put moves on him and he says "not in the mood, tired, he isnt on track" which I dont get that last one. I am not afraid to put moves on him cause I get rejected. He is 38 Im 32, and Im like ready to go. No kids, we have a house, and do other things together, but his uniterest in sex is killing me and leading me to bad thoughts. we have no weddiong plans, which I am getting cold feet and thinking is he the one? I mean seriously, I have tried talking nicely to him and asking if it's me or what, he told me before that when I yell or nag at him, it doesnt help, but I dont do that anymore. I have suggested couseling cause He isnt trying. I feel like he is the lazy one in our relationship. He doesnt make plans with me, I like to do things and go places and he would rather read or watch tv. We have no hobbies together, I like to workout, bike, go for walks, hiking and he is kinda a homebody and he isnt willing to try things with me. So I mean the other night when I tried to put moves on him, an d started kissing him he says "what are you doing? and he was like IM not in mood and I said I could get you in mood, and he said no. He isnt willing to try. I mean what guy doesnt love it when their girl wants them physically.