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Why won't my husband have sex with me

By October 20, 2009 - 2:19am
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My husband and I have only been married for 4 weeks!!! He is indian and I'm American!! We have been together for 2yrs. When we dated I couldn't keep him off of me but right after the wedding he stopped being attracted to me!! He tells me it's becuz he is worried about makeing money but I know that isn't it! I found out that he had cheated on me when I lived in NC and he lived in PA this hapened 3 months ago. After he cheated he hasn't been sexualy attracted to me i don't mean that we don't have sex but it has slowed way down he doesn't even seem to want to be around me anymore!!!! I don't know what to do plzzzz help me!!! Thanks for tour time.
Amanda bhardwaj!!!

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Hi Amanda,

Sorry to hear about your situation. Personally, I would cut my losses and get my marriage annulled or get a divorce. It would be obvious to me that something that should be perfect at 4 weeks is not. I really don't know what else to tell you but if you try to read your post as another person and not yourself I think you will know what to do.

I know it's a hard choice because you had plans, hopes, and dreams for your marriage but consider what will ultimately make you the happiest in the long run.

Good Luck.

October 20, 2009 - 5:35am
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