I was in a relationship with this guy for almost four years. We were engaged, but we both agreed that we didn't want to have sex until our honeymoon. After we broke up my ex confessed that he never found me sexually attractive. Why would someone be with someone for so long if they weren't sexually attracted to them?
More info: We did make out and did some things, but we definitely didn't even come close to "going all the way." The person I dated was extremely emotionally abusive. I was slightly older than him, but I had no money and really wasn't a gold-digger type. Is it possible that if he was using me that he was using me for something other than money/sex? I just really don't understand why someone would want to be with someone for so long that they weren't attracted to.