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will he change?

By October 11, 2015 - 11:36am
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My fiance and I have been together for a year and im currently on holidays with my family snd im going back to where i live in 1 week. My fiance and i we're arguing over something on text and he was accusing me on something and kept calling me a liar for no reason, he has lost his virginity to his ex and so have i, next thing you know he said to me 'you even lost your virginity to an alcoholic ex goodnight' he just chucked at my face that I'm not a virgin and I don't want this to be in his mouth for the rest of our future. I just blocked him off my calls and messages. Before our argument we have already booked a hotel for next day I get back to be together and spend some time because we've missed each other and we were talking about how excited we were to feel each other again. After the argument and what he has said to me, I told him I'm not going to the hotel, and that if he is trying to make me feel like a filth, then he surely doesn't deserve to be with me that night. I don't know if I should unblock him and tell him off or have a silent treatment. I'm going back there in 1 week, he was supposed to also come to the airport to meet me and my family. Should I completely ignore him till the day I land or unblock him and speak to him and let him step over me?..

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Where do I start.... he went to prison I was there mentally emotionally financially and traveled. He lied on several occasions about I was the only woman in his life romantically. Come to find out on 2 ocasions that was a lie. He got released I was there to pick him up with love clothing essentials hygiene essentials etc. I soon realized I still didn't trust him. When he was in prison pleaded n pleaded that I help him rebuild our foundation from this 15yr on n off again relationship. I dug deep n gave in now he's home my untrustworthy in him has unleashed I lash out everything sounds like a lie to me. He says things like he doesn't have 2 probation officers n not telling me his everymove. If i take pics of him with his shirtoff he asks me to forward them to him in my opinion to send to other women. At this point i don't care if he wants someone else i just want the truth so I can walk away. He discusses our disagreements with his heavily opionated family which whatever they say to him to do he does. It's been plenty of times when we were on a break he would bring multiple different women to his families house n they engage every single 1 of these females instead of saying that's not right. I just don't know what to do anymore. The last weekend we spent together he thought i was in the shower i walked bk in the bedroom to grab my house slippers n saw him by the laundry room on the other side of the house checking his phone. I asked him several times why is he doing that all of a sudden and he keeps replying he's not hiding anything ck the cell company for his phone records and what makes me think he was checking his phone. Im responded you was just standing there staring at it for no reason? I told him today I can't do this anymore. But I'm crying a river when I should be happy I guess....

October 20, 2015 - 6:44am
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