Ive been with my 42 year old boyfriend for 4 1/2 years we even share a son. We started off having sex as normal couples do a couple times a week if not more, now its like we can go weeks without it unless I intiate it. I am 32 and my sex drive been always tremendously high ( lucky me) when we do get it in most of the times its okay, and once in awhile great. I feel myself starting to get sexually frustrated and scared that its only going to get worse as he continues to age. I question myself if i will be depriving myself for his happiness. I know sex isnt the only important factor in a relationship but it creates such a deeper bond between two. This creates insecurity in me as being a woman, I know that I am extremely attractive, but this is so damn odd to me. At times I feel like considering to get my needs met elsewhere, Im only human and really miss that connection and the feeling of being wanted. Could this be his age?
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