I have twince baby boys (17 months), i do work from home full time, these days my husband is on bed rest had undergone small surgery but fine now it has been more than 20 days now but he can do his own work. but situation get worse when he has to take care of children along with me some times he gets so irritated, yells on them and some times hit them unnecessarily which makes me upset very much i try to handle them by my self as much as i can but some time being a twince i do need support from him. he gets irritate on dinning table if something went wrong in food prepartion, pointing my mistakes on small small things, he was not like this before, dont allow to enter kids in his bedroom though he is awake and playing on his i phone or listening songs as if he himself dont want to cope up with the surgery and get back to normal life, he dont have innerself to abid the situation. and eventually even on my mistake (according to him) my kids had to suffer. dont understand what to do so that he himself try to come back to normal life or try to fight with the situation saying "yes we both can handle the kids, can keep a watch on them till the time you finish up the house hold work"