I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now I love him so much and I know he feels the same he always says he loves Me and gives me compliments every day. We used to have sex like 2/3 times a week now its once every 2 weeks, he sometimes jokes around and says I'm getting fat and he says I'm going on a diet but he jokes its just make a me wonder if that's the reason I have put on a little bit of weight but for my age I'm only 18 I'm not fat, he talks about sex with me but every time I make a move he says not tonight his tired.
Is it because maybe I have put on weight?
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When men laugh things like that off. They're not really joking. I'm betting he really does think you're gaining weight. You have two choices really. Find someone who loves you for you or start yoga. You'll lose weight fast and be more flexable;)
June 28, 2014 - 8:28pmThis Comment
Hi Anon,
Welcome to EmpowHER. It's important to have open communication in a relationship. Only your partner can explain why he does not want to be intimate as before. Gaining weight should not be a problem if he does love you. You need to let him know how this is making you feel and what it has done to the relationship. Before it's too late. Hope this has helped.
Best,
Daisy
June 28, 2014 - 7:14pmThis Comment