I just found this article and now I'm so scared. I have been bedridden for 6 years and sick my whole life. I read this article because I'm being treated like I don't matter or add anything important to my family's life. I can't do anything. I have a 7 and 10 year old boys. I never get to be with my family and always feel that he isn't in love with me anymore. They are the only world I have. I'd lose everything that I have left. I used Google to see if there was anything to say or do to make him still love me but now I know that he probably feels the same way as all of you. I guess my fear is real and my husband probably doesn't want me anymore and I most likely I'm repulsive to him and that he is so unhappy he probably wants a divorce. I understand all of you. Before it became so bad a was a nurse and it was hard being a caregiver for 12 hours a day. I know that was my job but I never saw one of there spouses leave their side and they were all chronically ill. I might as well end my life before he divorces me and I have nothing.