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Emotional Abuse - Trying not to be the Victim

By May 11, 2015 - 9:08am

My husband is a good father and can be a good husband. But he has the moments of "rages" when he is so angry with me over the stupidest things, he ends up saying awful, hateful things to me, punching walls, kicking stuff across the room, throwing furniture over etc. Just a few days ago it got so bad that he charged me and got in my face. For the first time in 7 years of marriage i was scared, i still am. He claims he would never hit a woman but...i am holding on to Hope and praying for change but its not changing. He keeps telling me all things i do wrong. He does feel bad after, telling me how sorry he is but that doesn't stop him from doing it again. I dont know what to do anymore. I have no desire to have sex with him, I am staying together for our 2 girls, I hate the idea of my girls seeing how he treats me. We have been to counseling over the years but at what point do you look at this situation and realize that you are better off alone than with someone that brings you down over and over?

By May 27, 2015 - 12:14am

Seems like a very serious problem to me. Your husband definitely needs professional help. You should talk to him about this problem clearly and if he refused to do so, you should leave him for some time. Give him and yourself time to think. I'm sure he can overcome his problem if he seriously try to get professional help.

May 27, 2015 - 12:14am
By May 15, 2015 - 7:08pm

Hi, this is the beginning stages of abuse.. Protect your children

May 15, 2015 - 7:08pm

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