Emotional Abuse - Trying not to be the Victim
My husband is a good father and can be a good husband. But he has the moments of "rages" when he is so angry with me over the stupidest things, he ends up saying awful, hateful things to me, punching walls, kicking stuff across the room, throwing furniture over etc. Just a few days ago it got so bad that he charged me and got in my face. For the first time in 7 years of marriage i was scared, i still am. He claims he would never hit a woman but...i am holding on to Hope and praying for change but its not changing. He keeps telling me all things i do wrong. He does feel bad after, telling me how sorry he is but that doesn't stop him from doing it again. I dont know what to do anymore. I have no desire to have sex with him, I am staying together for our 2 girls, I hate the idea of my girls seeing how he treats me. We have been to counseling over the years but at what point do you look at this situation and realize that you are better off alone than with someone that brings you down over and over?