My husband has always been quick to get angry..I have a short fuse when pushed too. Anyway , I've noticed how out of balance or unhealthy this is. Talked to a friend after this happened and they can't believe I let him treat me like that. So this weekend , he said he wanted to get the paper , asked him why, and he snapped at me, said no wonder he's always grumpy, you make me this way. At home a few minutes later we were still talking about it and he talked like I should apologize to him! I said if you think you can snap on me and expect me to apologize , it's not gonna happen . He got pissued and said get out of my house. Left to run errands, came back and he apologized. He is kissing butt still. He argues about everything, dishes not rinsed off, mess around house, and shouts about everything , but I can't get mad or anyone else no no.