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By November 18, 2012 - 11:50am

I never have a boyfriend and never had my first kiss. I see my sister with her boyfriend and their have funny and other thing. I know what you think my jealous may i'm jealous because i have not have a boyfriend. I have a disability and a lot of boys like normal girls
when i was in middle school and high school no boys had a crush on or like me. i did have a lot of friend in middle school or high school. My 22 years old and i still having have my first boyfriend and die in the inside. i feel like give up on love. Sometime feel at my never going to find love

By December 10, 2012 - 5:02pm

Hi there glamgoddess21! From reading your story I see why you would feel discouraged seeing how family members or even friends in their relationships.It's OK to be jealous.You only want a little of what others have.I encourage you to never loose hope in anything it is that you desire.In this case you may desire to have a loving relationship in which you can give and receive your first kiss and have a line of many first times.Your time to indulge in the magic of love will come in do time.Their is a time for everything in life.And this may be the time for you to learn to love yourself, and accomplish things for you before someone else gets the opportunity to.No matter what the disability you may have is certainly no excuse to not find love.So, please don't feel as if you wont ever be able to, because I am a hundred percent sure that you will find an amazing and accepting person, who takes you just as you are, but in do time.You are a beautiful person and worthy of all great things.

It is better be single than be in a bad relationship full of stress and drama.So feel lucky that you are in waiting of that one special person who will not only be accepting of your flaws, but also love ALL of you with out measure.Always know that the best relationships are those that start out as friends.You never know if you have a loving and accepting guy who might care for you more than just friends around you.

Yet, I still insist that you surround yourself with those who love you most and let them fill that void of love and wanting while the right guy comes along.Don't forget that God doesn't make mistakes.You were perfectly made.

Many hugs.

December 10, 2012 - 5:02pm
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By Anonymous December 7, 2012 - 6:51pm

Hi glamgoddess21,

Welcome to EmpowHER.  Thanks for sharing your story, here you will find support and answers from others.



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