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By November 11, 2011 - 9:06am

I had a relationship of sorts with a man about a year ago; our relationship was physical, but there was a really deep emotional connection. After months and months of not getting the attention I think I deserved (he is a busy business owner, but I believe that people make time for the things they want), I cut off all contact with him; which in hindsight I realize was a little bit much. I never told him how I really felt ie:I have serious feelings for you.

After seeing him around recently I've realize that the feelings I had for him are still very much alive and well. I have tried to move on, and my friends tell me that I should forget about him; but I wonder, should I tell him how I feel? I am deathly afraid of rejection; but I fear I will never be able to get over him if I don't.

Help ladies, I need guidance.

By November 26, 2011 - 3:03pm


This reply couldn't be more timely; as I just saw the man in question yesterday.

In response to your question, when I stopped contacting him, I don't know how he reacted; I happened to lose my phone and got a new phone and new number. And when we see each other, I feel a spark, but I am unsure as to whether I feel something cause it's there or because I want it to be there. I am not very familiar with relationships as I haven't had many in my life.

I am unsure how he feels; and my fear of rejections and "looking dumb" stops me from asking him.

Thank you for your advice; love is certainly hard...


November 26, 2011 - 3:03pm

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