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By January 17, 2011 - 8:06pm

Why am i so afraid to talk to this guy that i like????

By January 21, 2011 - 7:47am

I'm sorry, I assumed since you were so nervous to talk with him. Glad it worked out for you. Good luck and let us know how you're doing.

January 21, 2011 - 7:47am
By January 20, 2011 - 3:34pm

:)!!!!! Ok and no this like my 3rd relationship with a boy but none of them was like him.

January 20, 2011 - 3:34pm
By January 20, 2011 - 7:04am

Wow, girl, you move fast! :) Enjoy this time, and let us know if anything else comes up you want to ask about. Is this your first relationship with a boy?
Take care,

January 20, 2011 - 7:04am
By January 20, 2011 - 4:34am

Thank you so much!!!!!!! The steps really helped me a lot. I've opened up too him and now all we do is talk. Now he is my boyfriend!!!!!! Once again thank you!!!!!

January 20, 2011 - 4:34am
By January 18, 2011 - 9:59am

Hi JHall,
Thanks for your post, and for joining EmpowHER. It is completely normal to be afraid to talk with a guy you like. It is the fight or flight response to adrenaline you no doubt are getting when you see him and anticipate a possible interaction with him. I always used to feel my face redden, and my heart quicken, maybe the palms would get sweaty. Then all you want to do is run away. Sound familiar?
So who is this boy you like? Is he a classmate? Is he a friend?
Check this out, it may have some good tips to help you work up the courage to take some small steps forward: How To Talk To A Guy You Like
And when all else fails, smile, but don't stare. Be casual, and friendly. Good luck! And let us know how you're doing.

January 18, 2011 - 9:59am
By January 17, 2011 - 8:08pm

Is that a normal thing???

January 17, 2011 - 8:08pm

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