It has occurred to me that having obsessive compulsive disorder or OCD can possibly lead one to being self-centered. Because I have this disorder I sometimes find myself thinking that it has lead me to be self-centered insomuch that too often I focus on myself.
When other people mention their physical or mental problems I sometimes act with surprise because I realize that other people also have problems. I am not the only one with a problem. This may seem like an obvious conclusion, but to me it is not obvious because I am too busy thinking about my OCD. I sympathize with the struggles of others, but nevertheless I can be somewhat surprised by them.
This is what having OCD can do to you. You can become very wrapped up in yourself and your own little world. This is not a healthy thing to do, but I believe that the disorder makes you do it. It is the nature of the beast.
In order to overcome that egocentric state of mind I have to make an attempt to try to realize that everyone struggles with something, and that my efforts to show empathy have to increase. I think I was more empathetic when I didn't have OCD. The nature of the disorder definitely makes you think more about yourself.
After all, you are obsessing (hence the name, obsessive compulsive disorder.) As a matter of fact it would be a good idea to reach out more to those with physical or mental problems as a means of therapy. It is not only a good strategy, but you can help someone in the process. I don't think it is self-serving, or that it constitutes a hidden agenda.
It is important not to become so focused on yourself that you lose sight of those who could use your help. Those who suffer from certain mental disorders, which by their very nature make you more self-centered, may have some extra hurdles to overcome, but the act of reaching out is definitely worthwhile.
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The obsessive compulsive personality disorder is a pervasive characterological disturbance involving one's generalized style and beliefs in the way one relates to the themselves and the world.April 5, 2011 - 11:32pm
Hi,October 14, 2010 - 7:00am
Thanks for that information.
Hi, going for doctor's consultation needs money too and same goes to buying all the medications.
If I have to pay for something that are proven to help my condition, I wouldn't mind paying it. By the way, i did purchase the reading materials and to be honest to you, It does helps me a lot. In fact the ocd that I have been having for over 25 years, faded away after I addresses the underlying problems of ocd. Anyway, they also gives out free ebook which is so good, you might be recovered just by reading this free ebook about anxiety disorder guide and don't have to buy the actualpack. Hope that helps
ThanksOctober 13, 2010 - 5:01pm
Hello,October 13, 2010 - 12:07pm
I checked out the website you mentioned. I am not going to comment on its validity, but do want to tell my readers that the Linden method it promotes consists of programs and reading material which one has to pay for.
I would like to stress here that ocd is related to high anxiety disorder it is not a stand alone symptom and definitely not a mental illness. Www.stopocd.org explains this facts very clearly.
HaqmaniOctober 13, 2010 - 10:01am