Hi Tracy30,
Thank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. I'm sorry you are going through this. Just like any relationship, it can experience ups and downs. It definitely sounds like you are going through a period of disconnect with your partner.
Just as every relationship is unique, so are the reasons or causes behind your partner's choices in his behavior towards you. We have compiled the “best responses” received from both men and women in regards to your specific question, and hope you read through them thoughtfully. Women have been going through the same struggles, and have shared their insight and lessons learned. Men have also shared why they did not want to have sex in their strained relationships. Please let us know what “words of wisdom” or “tips” resonated with you from the following articles:
There also is a similar ASK here on EmpowHER that may interest you to read some of the responses. At the very least, it should convey to you that you truly are not alone in this situation: Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me anymore?
Assess the situation, try to figure out what's really going on, decide if it can be remedied, and work on it. If all else fails, you can decide to move on. I know none of it will be easy.
Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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Hi Tracy30,
Thank you for your question and for joining EmpowHER. I'm sorry you are going through this. Just like any relationship, it can experience ups and downs. It definitely sounds like you are going through a period of disconnect with your partner.
Just as every relationship is unique, so are the reasons or causes behind your partner's choices in his behavior towards you. We have compiled the “best responses” received from both men and women in regards to your specific question, and hope you read through them thoughtfully. Women have been going through the same struggles, and have shared their insight and lessons learned. Men have also shared why they did not want to have sex in their strained relationships. Please let us know what “words of wisdom” or “tips” resonated with you from the following articles:
Helpful Relationship and Sex Articles:
There also is a similar ASK here on EmpowHER that may interest you to read some of the responses. At the very least, it should convey to you that you truly are not alone in this situation: Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex with me anymore?
March 16, 2011 - 9:41amAssess the situation, try to figure out what's really going on, decide if it can be remedied, and work on it. If all else fails, you can decide to move on. I know none of it will be easy.
Good luck, and let us know how you're doing.
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