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Can I get pregnant from this situation????

By Anonymous May 31, 2011 - 2:15pm
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So today, May 31, 2011 around 10:15am...we had sexual activity. We didn't have sexual intercourse. This is how it all went down:
-we both took our pants down
-his penis was rubbing my clit
-afterwards he put on a condom and jacked off inside the condom. his penis wasn't close to my vagina.
He doesn't think I'm pregnant because we didn't have any intercourse and he didn't ejaculate inside me...

Can I get pregnant? What should i Do?? I'm suppose to get my period on June 4, 2011.

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From your previous post, you had a period around June 4. Is this correct?
Have you had unprotected sex since your last period? If not, then you cannot be pregnant. If you had unprotected sex, then wait until you are late by one week and take a home pregnancy test.

July 11, 2011 - 5:22pm

Your chances of getting pregnant from this particular incident of May 31 are very low. The chance of getting pregnant is high at the time of ovulation. Remember it this way, mid-cycle- about 2 weeks after last day of period and 2 weeks before next period- high risk of getting pregnant.

June 1, 2011 - 6:05pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

i just noticed something..

On January i got it on the 5th, February got it on the 4th and march i got it on the 9th....and this pattern goes on.... so apparently i might be getting my period on the 9th.....

do you think i have ovulated ? is there still a slim chance that im not pregnant?

June 2, 2011 - 5:54am
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

why thank you, that made everything easier to understand.
so i may be okay right? i shouldn't be too worried if im 2-3 days late?

and thanks for your help :)~!!!!!!

very low is what i like to hear. ive surely learned from my mistake this time.

June 1, 2011 - 6:07pm

Let me better explain ovulation.
You measure your monthly menstrual cycle from the first day of your period until the first day of your next period. Generally, if your menstrual cycle is between 28 to 32 days, meaning it is between 28 to 32 days in between periods, you will ovulate around the 14th day after your last period ending. Think of it as happening around the middle.
Ovulation occurs when a mature egg is released from the ovary, pushed down the fallopian tube, and is available to be fertilized. The released egg lives 12 to 24 hours after leaving the ovary. So, your chances of getting pregnant are highest if you have unprotected sex during this period of time. Since you are due to get your period on June 4, you would have already ovulated by May 31, probably 2 weeks ago.
Try to relax, being late by 2 or 3 days is nothing to worry about. I hope that I have explained ovulation and what I meant by "already ovulated". I am sorry for causing you any confusion.

June 1, 2011 - 5:26pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

and since you have suggested that i have ovulated...does that mean that i have a high chance of pregnancy now or do i have a low chance since u said i may have already ovulated by may 31 even though thats when this incident happened.

nah don't worry about it . im slow so it takes me a while to understand. glad you cleared it up for me

June 1, 2011 - 5:29pm

Right now, you have to wait to see if you get your period on or around June4. In the future, your partner needs to put on a condom before any contact with your genital area. There is always a possibility of a small leak of semen containing sperm if your partner had an erection before coming in contact with your clitoris. Since you are expecting your period on June 4, it is very likely that you have already ovulated. But determining the exact day of ovulation is very difficult, It usually occurs about 14 days before the onset of the menstrual flow. To be safe, do not have unprotected sex, whether it be intercourse or the activity you described above. You may want to consider oral contraceptive as well.

May 31, 2011 - 6:31pm
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

i just made an account so this is my response:

how will i know the difference between implantation bleeding and just a normal period? should i buy a home pregnancy test before or after the period/implantation bleeding?

and what did you mean that i might have already ovulated? does that mean i might mostly am pregnant?

May 31, 2011 - 9:44pm
(reply to thetumblrist1993)

Implantation bleeding is more like spotting, not bleeding. It is usually light pink in color and looks nothing like a regular period and does not occur in every woman. A pregnancy test, in your situation, should be taken after June 4th if you have a late or missed period. If your period arrives on time, then you are not pregnant.

What Maryann meant by you have already ovulated is that most women ovulate at or around 14 days after the first day of your period, so since yesterday was the 31st and your period is already due at the end of the week, chances are you had already ovulated when your boyfriend was rubbing on you and not ovulating at the time-- meaning that you will most likely NOT get pregnant. Does this make sense?

I agree with your boyfriend, the chances of you getting pregnant that way are very, very slim.

All the best,


June 1, 2011 - 8:01am
(reply to Rosa Cabrera RN)

so since i may have already ovulated..it may mean that im most likely NOT pregnant?

so i should buy the home preg test after my period or if im late right?

and so implantation bleeding and a normal regular period is different right? how long is implantation bleeding last?

June 1, 2011 - 8:05am
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