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could there be pregnancy risk?

By Anonymous March 10, 2012 - 8:01am
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I am not afraid of the ejaculation on the hand, but it worry me that he could have touched the wet part / the damp part of his pants in between of him fingering me. It could have been damp / wet from the excitement (pre-cum i presume, coz he didnt came). so what worries me is that that touch / accidentally touchin on the damp part could get me prego. i missed a period already, bt i presum that it is because i have irregular period and that i am stressing the no show period. i am also only 18 years old. what is wrng wt me?????

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Is there a high chance of pregnancy in this situation? I have a 28-30 day cycle. (We don't use protection because we are okay if something happened) On cycle day 13 (sorry if tmi) we had unprotected sex then pulled out and finished. Then two seconds later fingered me with the rest of the sperm. And on cycle day 17 we were unprotected again and as he pulled out he said some might of went inside. I checked and saw a small amount on my fingers. I think I am due for my period in 6 days but now I am having a twinge like feeling in my abdomen, no pain. And yesterday I had small amounts of milky fluid, no burn or itching there either. Do you think I could have gotten pregnant from what we did? Thanks!

August 16, 2012 - 12:56pm
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Yes. While the odds are slim, *absolutely* you could be pregnant if your vagina comes in contact with semen. That's the biological purpose of sperm. It wants in, it wants an egg. I have heard of a case where sperm crawled up from a thigh ( Ann Landers maybe 30 years ago ) and yeah, bingo. A 40 year old woman asking this question would be wishful thinking, but 18 year old's are especially fertile. You need to be more wary and to tell him to be more careful. People's brains actually get less blood flow when aroused, so being a bit stupid and careless about things like wet hands is a hazard of sex that you have to be really aware of. You have to have a hard conversation while you are in a neutral moment asking him to be careful and to protect you. Guys often like to protect women, so don't phrase it like "Don't be a jerk with your dirty semen." be like "I want to be with you for a long time. Being a mother at my age would mess with my head. Please don't let that happen to me!" Other women might dispute my wording or emphasis ( I am sure they will - everybody's got a different take on feminism ) but I would hope that adult women are not seriously advising an 18 year old that she should not be concerned about the danger of being fingered with hands covered in come! I wish you the best.

August 4, 2012 - 1:40pm
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Hi Anon,

Welcome to EmpowHER. It's unlikely that without intercourse you will be pregnant. You might want to take a home pregnancy test to be sure you are not.

Here is a link that will help




March 11, 2012 - 11:23am
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