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I don't know what to do in my relationship anymore how far is too far.

By July 10, 2017 - 3:15pm
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I been with this guy for almost four years now. I got pregnant too soon and had my first daughter. I don't regret my daughter at all or my child on the way but I often regret the person I'm still letting be a part of my life.

When our relationship is good is the best a relationship can be so good that I question what did I do to deserve it.

But when it's bad, which is often it also makes me question what did I do to deserve it.

I've been lied to and also verbally and physically abuse as well as emotionally. I've given this man more chances than I ever gave anyone and one of them have change the fact that I am still being called a bitch, fat, and also that I can't have sex with him the right way. Pretty much tells me I'm not women enough for him. I tried to be with him after I found out he was taking to other women online and paying for virtual sex. He's been insisting that it was all he did and begged me for another chance. I gave him that chance still not convinced he's telling me the whole truth so I been investigating to find out more. YESTURDAY I went thru his phone and found some old messages which meant he was talking to women way before that. I been lied to this whole time and on top of that also humiliated. All he does is apologize and act like things will be better. They've just gotten worst. I just been giving him chances because I'm having his second child but I don't even feel like it's worth it. Maybe I should have my child alone and just stay alone for the rest of my life.

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Hello anonymousspanishgirl,

Welcome to the EmpowHER community. Thank you for reaching out to us for support and guidance.

You must think of yourself, your child and yet unborn child. This is an abusive environment that you are putting them in, as well as yourself.

Do you have family members or a trusted friend who will open their homes to you?

Getting out and away may seem overwhelming, but is your best option.


July 11, 2017 - 6:43am
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