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I need some advices. Help.

By Anonymous September 13, 2011 - 5:12am
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I am really worried. I know that getting pregnant with clothes on is not that easy. But I kept on thinking what if I am. We both wore jeans, no penetration was made. We were just rubbing while standing up (I know it was hard to get pregnant without intercourse, but I started worrying after a week, when I experienced Hyperacidity and googled possibility about Faux Sex. They said that you could get pregnant if naked, without penetration. But chances are slim. And if clothes were completely soaked. - can you explain or give an example of how soak the jeans or clothing is for pregnancy risks to become high?) I really need some answers. I am thinking too much about this, adding to my daily stresses in life (still studying, in a hard course). We also did this last August, (18th if I remember), 7 days after my period. I was wearing a pad. I'm quite irregular. I am sorry for this stupid post. Even though I have found no cases of pregnancy with clothes on, I am still worried. Its just that I really am a pessimistic person. I over think too much. I never said this to my guy since he never showed any signs of worrying that this action might get me pregnant. I am also worried that this stress might delay my period, causing me to worry more. I just need some advices. (BTW, Thats why I am worried. I usually get my period 9-13th day of the month)

- Please don't answer that harsh. Everyone has something that scares the hell out of them. I only need someone to talk to without getting judged. Sorry.

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I agree with Rosa! I have had my own share of pregnancy scares (although I have not had vaginal sex ever, but have probably had both dry sex, anal, and oral). These scares can be costly with monthly tests (if periods are irregular). But, my own assessment of your situation seems to be that the chances of your pregnancy are slim to none. Adding to Rosa's advice, if you are really scared and want to put your mind at ease, take an Early pregnancy test to calm your nerves down.
Best wishes!

September 13, 2011 - 9:09am

Hi Anon,

Thanks for your post. You are absolutely right, we all have our fears and sometimes some are irrational but the fear kind of blurs our reality.

To ease your mind, you cannot be pregnant if you had dry sex (or dry humping). If you were naked, there would be a possibility--still slim if there was no ejaculation. But to be considered soaked, the man must ejaculate a lot and most men don't ejaculate more than a quarter size so things over the internet can be grossly exaggerated. Sperm also begins to die minutes outside of the male body making the ones that survive, very weak and impossible to swim through your clothes and find their way into your vagina.
Remember that people consider themselves soaked but they don't realize that it may be coming from the woman as well when she is excited. If he was fully dressed and you were fully dressed, rest assured- you are not pregnant.

However, because you are so scared of being pregnant I would reconsider having sex or any sexual activity until you fully understand the consequences and are ready to engage in sexual activities.

Best of luck,


September 13, 2011 - 6:13am
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