I love sex. My libido is greater than that of my boyfriend of 7 years. We used to do it at least once or twice a day for the first 2 years of our relationship. He would even "go the extra mile". Then, I lost me job, and I think his respect for me. I know respect for a man is equivalent to love for women. So, if I'm feeling un- not dis-respected, could this mean he is feeling less loved? Really, I think I'm smothering him, almost, with love, but not receiving nearly as much in return.