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I'm bisexual and married.

By Anonymous June 15, 2016 - 9:44am
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Ok so this is crazy but I always wanted a threesome so bad with another woman and my husband. So after lots of convincing my husband finally gave in so I told my best friend who I think is so hot to come join us-- she happily agreed. My husband seem to be super excited with my pick ( he just confessed to me he always fantasized about her before the threesome) So she first watched my husband and I then my husband watch me and her eat each other out then I watched my husband at her during full blown intercourse. well she got pregnant by him!! Now my husband wants a divorce and my best friend who I just found out is not a good friend took all my stuff out of my house while I was at work and told me to F*** myself and to go look for P***y cause she said that's what I like. I'm feeling so betrayed!! My husband told me personally hes sorry but he cant be with me anymore hes going to be a dad and he wont leave her now-----he told me its my fault and to hurt me further he said that she was great in bed compared to me. I really regret this now so much!! should I convince my husband to let me live with them? I sound like a loser I know but I'm lost in what to do..thanks

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After years of denial, I am "coming out" to myself as bisexual the past few months. I don't have a lot of relationship experience to begin with--and none with a guy--but I can definitely say I feel physically and emotionally attracted to both, and have felt the butterflies and crushes for girls and guys both.

July 18, 2016 - 7:02pm

Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER. Thank you for reaching out to our community for advice.

I am at a loss and feel unable to counsel you. It doesn't sound like your husband or friend want you in their lives.


June 15, 2016 - 9:50am
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