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Marriage problem.. Husband is cheating on me

By Anonymous June 27, 2014 - 12:46pm
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I'm 22years & i'm in a relationship from last 2.3years though its not my 1st relationship but I think I really love him.At the beginning of our relationship he was very nice & gentle to me.We had pshycal relationshipa also.Everything was going smooth. But gradually he started to become violent & extra-possesive towards me.Then I decited to break up him.Then my relationship was only 6months old.Then 1day he came to my home & slapped me for breaking up the relationship & threated me for continuing the relation.But I did not do so & complained to police against him.After the interference of police he stoped treating me.1 month passed.I really loveed him so I was missing him badly. So I contacted with him again & proposed him to be my friend.He agreed & we become friends.Then he was so nice & gentle. He always apologized for what he did & begged sorry every time.Finally he is able to win my heart again & after 15days of friendship we were again in relationship. This time he is very loving & caring towards me.1year passed.We were happy together. We got married in last January. But I have to go against my family as they don't support me for marrying him.I left my everything for him.After marriage he is not so nice & caring but I was still okay with that.But recently I caught him red handed..he was cheating on me with his ex.What should I do now? please help me out

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Hello Anonymous,

My advice to you is pack your bag, walk out the door, and get a divorce.
You need to seek legal counsel and end this marriage. The man has verbally, emotionally and physically abused you. He has been unfaithful.

End the marriage and have no further contact with him. You deserve better. Abusive men are manipulative. They will put on the false face of kindness and promise to change, but never do.


June 27, 2014 - 4:53pm
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thank you dear! I'll surely follow your advice.

June 27, 2014 - 11:25pm
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