My boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years this june. Our relationship has had ups and downs and we have been through his father's death and his parents divorce, as well as my struggles. I have lived with my boyfriend and his family on and off since i was 19. i am 23 now. My boyfriend hasnt worked since october of 2008 and alot of friends ask why im still with him, but that isnt the point. My questions is, why after all this time together we stopped having sex? its been 2 months now. i know my boyfriend is faithful to me 100%, its almost unbearable this lack of sex. the doctor diagnosed him with low testosterone which im sure is part of the problem, but where do i go? where do i turn? I need advice!