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my boyfriend is all was asleep! what to do??????

By February 25, 2010 - 12:57am
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WE can be doing anything outside the house where we are around other people and he is fine.but when get home no matter what time he is sleep no matter what i want to do its like hes bored or something i don't get it.why no need to have sex or talk or just something! we have only been together for 1 year but it was never like this1

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think he's either lost his libido, or may be a switch hitter.

March 2, 2010 - 2:31am


Does he suffer from depression? What does he do for a living?

I know my husband would give anything to just spend his days off in bed-- but he works almost 60 hours a week and uses his days off for himself.
Your boyfriend could very well just be tired or if he doesn't work a lot (or at all) does he seem disinterested in going out and socializing or doing things around the house? Have you suggested that you guys do things outside of the house together?

There are certain things such as a thyroid problem that may cause sleepiness, lack of energy, etc. So, if he does not seem depressed to you-- this could very well be the case. It may not necessarily be his thyroid-- there is also Chronic Fatigue Syndrome, please see: https://www.empowher.com/news/herarticle/2010/02/23/my-top-ten-chronic-fatigue-syndrome-warning-signs-impending-crash

Either way, I think it would benefit your boyfriend to pay a visit to his doctor and get a complete physical done.

Best of luck!

February 25, 2010 - 7:59am
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