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my fiance and i have been together for 11 years and lately ive been finding weird phone calls and texts from other guys tying to hook up with him. i am a girl. i dont know what to do we are supposed to be getting married in november. help

By Anonymous July 2, 2010 - 7:02am
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Hi Anonymous,
Thanks for your posting, and for being a part of EmpowHer's Community.
Have you asked your fiance what the texts and phone calls are about? I'm confused, when you say "hook up" what do you mean? Are these guys wanting to just meet up with your fiance? Are they friends of his you know, or guys he hasn't introduced you to?
I have read countless places, and can say from experience, that in regard to relationships, trust and communication are most important. You can uphold these concepts by being direct and asking "what gives?" to your fiance. Then deal with it in an adult manner from there.
Good luck, and let us know what happens.

July 2, 2010 - 10:15am
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