I am in a relationship of a year. Sex was great the first the frist few months. Then he asked me to slow down because he could not keep up with me. I guess I must be in my sexual prime. I am 41 he is 42. So we cut back, and back, and back... I know he loves me.. I know he is not cheating on me because like you we do everything together. I am lucky to get it once a week. He told me that he does not get the same connection from having sex like I believe most women do. When I asked him then how does he get it he told me by cudding, playing, making me laugh, smile and treating me like he does.. Which is awesome. He is so respectful and caring. He told me he could go a week a month without sex and he would be fine. I was shocked of course. I really dont want to go that long with out and of course me taking care of myself is not the same. Anyways I was just wondering if you have and suggestions. You know people tell you to spice it up, but when you are always rejected it is not easy. Look forward to hearing from you.