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Naked photos on boyfriends computer, conversations, i.ms

By November 10, 2011 - 4:39pm
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 7 months.. throughout the relationship i found photos, conversations etc. His grandma recently passed away and puts everything on her grave that nothing was him. Ive even found him on other websites talking dirty to girls. Deep down I knew but i would admit to it.
Here we are now, I found pictures of his best friend, his ex.. i slapped him and told him to leave.. i talked to his ex and she said they were old, his bestfriend was just mad because she has a boyfriend and does not want it to get ruined. He deleted the photos..or so he says.. this was 2 months ago.. yesterday.. i had a gut feeling.. i go snooping into the computer and twala..there back in a hidden folder.. with this time a extra folder, i opened it and this time there were 3 naked photos of another girl. I asked him who she was and why would he do this to me. All he said was delete them, if i knew about them they would already have been deleted. He put it on his grandmas grave that he had no idea any of them were on there or who the new girl even was. He is furious with me.. because i cant believe him or trust him.. I dont know what to do or think, I really need help.

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Hello Ladies,

Well, I have been with my loser for 5 years. Started with a little porn and some naked pictures. Then he became an alcoholic, workaholic, excessive spender, compulsive liar and caught him ready to cheat along with an infinite amount of pictures sent from his work phone to his Hotmail and then I also found the same pictures on Facebook. So, in a nutshell I have been through the worst relationship of my life. I am 42 years old and sick of being with what feels like a child. He had a DUI was on house arrest and blew it, because he drank. Is now in jail, and was panicking and calling me saying I was his only hope. he gave me his password for his Hotmail to find contacts. Big mistake. I was praying that I wouldn't see anything, and guess what? Yes, that is right there were pictures of a girl (clothed) with 3 other pictures naked. So, I was also able to log into his Facebook. I accidentally send one of his pictures that he took of himself down there and shared it with all his friends on Facebook. I swear it was a mistake, but maybe God was looking out for me. I would never do anything like this. But!!! Now I am just fine with it. What gives anybody the right to hurt someone to their core over and over. I am moving on.

June 1, 2013 - 6:46pm

As hard as it may be for you to face the reality of this situation, you must. Your boyfriend has these photos on his computer, converses in a provocative way with other women and lies about deleting these photos which are offensive to you.

Your relationship with him is crippled with deceit and infidelity. You need to leave him behind and start a new life.


November 10, 2011 - 5:13pm
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