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please help... am i pregnant.... =(

By Anonymous July 15, 2011 - 9:29am
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i was with my boyfriend today..... we were making out. he was naked but i insisted to stay with my pj pants...... his naked penis touched my vagina over my pants.. no direct skin to skin genitals touch... he ejaculated on my breasts only.
(i didnt remove my pj pants at all during the process)
is there any chance am pregnant... please help.. i know sperms donot swin inside cotton but am worried a lot =(

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July 18, 2011 - 5:00pm

Nice to hear from you. How old are you if you don't mind me asking? Are your periods normal? Since you were wearing clothes you weren't experiencing anything internal at that point so your okay. You both were goofing around at that point so it's not like you were actually having sex. Don't worry there just becareful. Keep me posted if you have any problem or questions.


July 18, 2011 - 10:19am
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Anonymous (reply to Melissa6666)

hey, i am 19 :)
and if you define virginity, like i do, by not having any intercourse experience, then ya i am a virgin.
i actually live in a country and a society where having sex before marriage is illegal and not accepted by anyway (law and religion), even if you are above 18.
so I always panic when i practice any sexual activity although i just practice dry humping and oral sex. since they are the safest.
ya my cycle is somehow regular, i am expecting it in about 10 to 14 days.
and ya i know that genitals rubbing WITHOUT clothes might be risky! that's why when my boyfriend took his clothes off , i actually kept on my panties and shorts because i know that dry humping WITH CLOTHES ON is safe.
But the ejaculation part made me worry a bit. but it seems its not a big deal since my genital region was covered with clothes, when he ejaculated.
thanks for releasing my stress! :)

July 18, 2011 - 1:06pm

Hi, I do know that you will not get pregnant out of what you think and explaining because sperm should enter the vagina that's the only way of pregnancy. Any kind of sexual experience you have had sperm should be in the vagina in order to be pregnant being on other body parts don't mean anything. If your menstrual period is normal then you know you're okay. If it's irregular and still bothering you see an ob/gyn.

Good Luck,

July 16, 2011 - 2:11pm
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Hi Anonymous,
You will not get pregnant from sperm hitting your leg and absorbing into your skin. Sperm must enter the vagina in order to become pregnant. Please educate yourself here about misconceptions about getting pregnant https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/misconceptions-sex.

Good luck,

July 16, 2011 - 9:43am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

thank you
I feel less worried
and i was wearing under wear and shorts so i dun think sperms can go through to my vagina

July 18, 2011 - 3:23am
EmpowHER Guest

Of course no.
Sperm didn't find way to uterus.

July 16, 2011 - 9:17am
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i have the same problem,
i had my underwear and shorts on, but i swallowed semen and it was covering the upper part of my body. Nothing near my genital region, however a spot from the semen was dropped on my cotton shorts (near my knee) but it was absorbed by the cotton and got dried at the same moment.
i started worrying about what happened and if i am pregnant or not. please anyone? comments?

July 16, 2011 - 3:27am
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Anonymous (reply to Anonymous)

please help me. should i take the morning after pills, but i didn't have actual sex!

July 16, 2011 - 5:10am
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thanks for ur comment and for the article link. its helpful. =)
Actually i was worried because there was ejaculation involved but as i said my vagina was covered. (i had panties and my pj pants on) .
i feel better now, coz i am not ready to be a mother at the moment, i am still attending college.

July 15, 2011 - 12:20pm
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