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Hello,
Lately me and my boyfriend have been fooling around and we had alot of pregnancy scares like getting pregnant through dry humping and we learned over time that this is impossible especially with clothes on, but the thing we are worried about now is pregnancy through fingering or touching each other and touching ourselves at the same time. Of course even though we get caught up in the moment, we are still very careful. There was one day when we were doing these things and we washed our hands before we touch each other and im not sure if he washed his hands thoroughly and im really scared because he came a little bit and whiped it off and washed his hands but im still scared. And today im feeling like mini cramps usually signaling me that my period is coming up but im still scared :( please help me???? :(
-worried
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Me and my boyfriend were dry humping and I now you can't get pregnant because of that. But this time we get further he fingered me but wasn't really deep. Since that time I have pain in my stomach. It was 3 days after my period ended, so can I be pregnant?
November 11, 2014 - 12:37pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
No. You cannot be pregnant. Dry humping and fingering do not cause pregnancy. Three days after finishing your period was too early for ovulation.
I think you need to view this slide show "Am I Pregnant?:Myths and Facts About Sex"
https://www.empowher.com/pregnancy/content/am-i-pregnant-myths-and-facts...
I do not know why you are having stomach pain. Could be anything from gas to a reaction to something you ate.
Regards,
November 12, 2014 - 10:16amMaryann
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I always get my periods 4 to 5 days before the date every month.Suddenly I then got periods on exact date for three months.Now I again got my periods 5 days earlier.I changed my diet one month back.So that is why I got my periods early???Im sufferring from abdominal bloating and back pain after my periods ended.Im scared I might be having ectopic pregnancy because I heard a lot that it might occur in unprotected sex.But seriously I and my boyfriend have never done sex.He just fingers me.But he never fingered my with semen or pre ejaculate on his fingers.But when I search on internet regarding abnominal bloating and back pain I find there might be a change of ectopic pregnancy and these are its symptoms.Please help me I'm frightened.
November 10, 2014 - 4:07amThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
You need to calm down. If you have not had vaginal intercourse, there is no chance that you are pregnant, and certainly not having an ectopic pregnancy.
Consider scheduling an appointment with your primary care physician to determine the cause of lower back pain and abdominal bloating. It could be a gastrointestinal problem.
Your gynecologist can advise you regarding the possible reasons your menstrual cycle has been irregular.
Regards,
November 10, 2014 - 10:56amMaryann
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I masturbated & went to my Girlfriend 1 hour later then fingered her !! are there any chances that she get pregnant ??
October 7, 2014 - 1:40pmThis Comment
Hello Anonymous,
Thank you for your question. Hopefully, you washed your hands after masturbating and remove any semen. Even if you didn't, any semen on you would have dried within the hour. Sperm dies once semen dries.
Regards,
October 8, 2014 - 8:55amMaryann
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thnx 4 ur help !!
October 8, 2014 - 12:56pmThis Comment
hi!
something similar is happening to me too!
Yesterday (28/07) me and my boyfriend had sex with a condom on like always. he then proceeded to taking it off (he had cum inside the condom but not inside me), away from my vagina. whilst taking it off, he touched his penis and obviously got little sperm on his fingers. he then left the room. around 3-5 mins later he returned and whilst i was getting my shoes from under the bed i saw him wipe his hand (the one he had used to take the condom off) and touch my vagina. NOTE: HE DID NOT STICK IT IN, SO NO IT WASNT FINGERING. after that i just went to pee and i wiped like normal.
can i get pregnant like this? or will the sperm have died whilst he left the room and came back and wiped etc?
also: my period ended the day before (27/07) and my fertile window doesnt start until around 6/08 and ovulation starts at around 9th. my last cycle lasted 33days.
July 29, 2014 - 6:10amThis Comment
Hi,
Something similar happened to me!
Last night (28/07) my boyfriend and I had sex (protected), and he came inside the condom but outside of me. Afterwards, he took the condom off and touched his penis, but then left the room. Then after about 3/5 minutes he came back and I was looking for my shoes under the bed, he rubbed his hand (the one he took the condom off with) on his arm, and then touched my vagina. (NOTE: HE DID NOT STICK HIS FINGER IN AS IF HE WAS ABOUT TO FINGER ME!)
Also, we had sex a day after I finished my period (27/07) and I won't start ovulating until around 6th August.
What are the chances of getting pregnant?
July 29, 2014 - 3:54amThis Comment
Hello, my boyfriend and I have engaged in mutual masturbation, he came and the sperm was on his stomach , he removed the sperm with tissues and washed his hands with water or soap and water, after that we watched a movie, and after 2 hours he fingered me. My period has been delayed for 2 days and it's probably because I've been stressing out about it for 10 days.. is there anything to be worried about?
January 14, 2014 - 3:59pmThis Comment