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Virginity and Pregnancy

By October 25, 2011 - 9:13am
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Hello Guides,
I have been screwed in for the first time a couple of days ago and these was how its been done: after drinking some tequila, my bf and I tried to do it, he entered only his tip, but couldn't pushed through because its too painful and contracted. He cummed inside eventhough, and I bled some. Next thing in the morning, we tried it again with several positions but I really couldn't bear the pain so we stopped, but the last time he was almost half an inch to make it, he cummed inside of me twice. There was a lot of blood that came out but he really didnt made it successfully. When I got home, I tested it by masturbating before I go to sleep, but same same, I cant put my finger on it with utmost success. It's like being locked and still painful. My questions would be:

1) I just had my period beginning 12th of this month and lasted between 15th or 16th, would it be possible I can get pregnant because he cummed inside?
2) I am experiencing some peculiar sting on my lower abdomen, is it just normal or I might get infected if he has a disease? He is an Australian, by the way, a foreigner to me.
3) I have noticed that there is still blood coming out until now from my vulva. And some white fluids too. Could that be his sperm being spitted out? Is this quite normal?
4) For these kind of cases, do you think I am still a virgin?
Thank you very much for your straight-forwarded answers. By the way, I am on my late thirties so I am not afraid about the course of my action, I am just curious and confused.
Hope to hear from you soonest.

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Hi Susan,

Your prompt response is highly appreciated. Just few things still unclear, and I hope you don't mind if we get over those questions again:
1) The intercourse happened eight days after the last day of my period. All I know the fertility period usually takes place fourteen days after the last day of menstruation. Please clear this one out as this was being passed here decades ago, could this be just one of the urban legends circulating? But I really don't mind getting pregnant as I am long wanting it. Just really curious.
2) My boyfriend and I have known each other for a year now, but still he is strange to me as he goes on his duty in the Armed Forces and I know a lot of unpleasant stories for the servicemen that's why I really gave him a hard time finally doing it to me. I am just a little paranoid, maybe. Could the sting from my lower abdomen just normal after doing it?...
3) I think there's a clog somewhere inside of me, barrier-like so no object can successfully come inside and out of it, no matter how we lubricate it. Is it possible to get an operation so it might loosen up, as I really wanted to enjoy sex life at my age, and I think the possibility of pregnancy is impossible to my case though I am looking up for it for such a long time. I just have some brownish discharge right now together with the white fluids.
4) Can I really be not a virgin anymore despite of the tightness still? I really wanted to be broken so we can enjoy it next time, anyway, my opening is a little sore.

Thank you very much again for your unconditional answers. More power and God speed!


October 25, 2011 - 11:51pm
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