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By November 19, 2014 - 1:27am
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Is it weird or what?
I'm 20 yrs old and I'm in a r.ship for a year and few months now but the problem i see my bf only once a week because of his job and I'm in college but every time we hook up I don't feel like having sex with him I do really love him and he loves me too. We do have sex every time we hook up but I don't get the feeling like doing it but when I'm away from him then I want sex.

Do I need to get some help?

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Hello miss m,

It is a bit strange that you desire your boyfriend when you are not with him, but lose the feeling when you are together.

I suggest you take note of what you are thinking and feeling when you are with him. Does any thing about him turn you off? When you desire him, what are you thinking or fantasizing?


November 19, 2014 - 9:32am
(reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

hi he has a very low sex drive and he will finish up real quick where as for me I have a high sex drive bt he can't keep up so that is turning me off

November 20, 2014 - 12:12am
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