My fiance and i have been together for almost 3 years now. We have a 5 year old boy and a 1 year old daughter. We moved from one state to another for him to get this amazing job. Which he did get. He does work a lot. He has been there for about 3 months now. But within this past week 2 female coworkers of his has tried to friend me on facebook. I do not friend anyone that I do not know so i didn't friend them. I am not jealous or being a bitch about it, but I don't understand why they would do that. Well my fiance and I went out for a few drinks and this girl was there and she wanted to go home with us for you know what. I am NOT into that at all. He has done one before not with me but he talks about doing it again, this time with me. I do not want to. but now our sex has gone down from 1 or 2 times a week (2 kids = tired) to 1 time every 2.5 weeks. but he expects oral all the time i mean like 3 times a week. when i mention that i want some he says he is tired. soon i get frustrated and say "you obviously dont want to have sex with me" and then since he got his feelings hurt he says "do something to deserve it" now i know that he doesnt mean it that way. when he gets hurt he hurts back. is he cheating on me? does he not want to be with me? help ! i am getting married in oct of this year. i need this fixed!!