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what should I do if my boyfriend doesn't like me to talk , smile with an another boys?

By Anonymous August 31, 2015 - 9:00am
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We are together since 4 years. He always controls me like how to smile where to look what should i wear...
He loves me a lot. He acts as a guardian, protector as a parent. He blamed me when i told that i have played with my sister's son. I asked the reason. He told me he doesn't like to touch that boy and order me to don't touch him. I loves him a lot. He is just a toddler. I feel he is a mad guy.
Can you help me how to solve this problem without breaking the relationship?

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Hello Anonymous,

Welcome to EmpowHER and thank you for reaching out to us fur advice.

How old are you?

My advice, which is not what you want to hear, is to end this relationship. Your boyfriend is controlling in a very unhealthy way. This is not love. Get out before it is too late.


August 31, 2015 - 9:27am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thanks Maryann.
I'm 25. I need to break but he doesn't allow me to do it.
But few years ago I have cheated on him. After that he becomes so arrogant to me. I need him to trust me. But he says I'm not in that position. Please give a positive advice Maryann.

September 1, 2015 - 8:03am
Guide (reply to Anonymous)

Hello Anonymous,

Well, the fact that you did cheat on him can explain his distrust. However, I am not comfortable with any person controlling another.
The fact that you say "he doesn't allow me" to break up is a warning that he may have an abusive personality.

If you still want to stay in this relationship, consider couple's counseling.


September 1, 2015 - 8:45am
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Anonymous (reply to Maryann Gromisch RN)

Thanks Maryann.
I'll give him another chance. He agreed to get couple's counseling advice. If it doesn't work I'll break this however.
Thank you again Maryann to support me to overcome with my pressure.

September 1, 2015 - 9:51pm
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