Unfortunately it has got worse for me- although my sex drive is rampant my wife's is non existent. She has no desire for sex and would rather decorate or do something else. After 30 years married and the kids gone it is now a bit of a disappointment. For both of us.
It gets WAY better. Being with the right partner helps as well. You have to be able to speak up and talk about what pleases you. We've been conditioned to not talk about sex because it's shameful. Truth is..... As I've gotten older, it's gotten better because I am no longer embarrassed to say what pleases me and also asking my partner what pleases him.
It's all about Empowering yourself and speaking up. No more faking orgasms. You are only cheating yourself when you do that and your partner thinks he's doing all the right things. Not So Much!! Being honest is the best way to have a healthy relationship.. .. period.
Been premenopausal and this is not a fun time. When the menopausal first started my desire was uncontrollable, I even warned my husband. Now my body reacts so differently. One day my body is ready to go the next could be screaming for help like its being abused. That question I guess is hard to answer truthfully. Maybe a year ago I would have said definitely older.
100% agreed! I went thru the experienced, am now 40s, my sex drive much better as kids grown up independently, no disturbances etc. My sex desire superb!
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Unfortunately it has got worse for me- although my sex drive is rampant my wife's is non existent. She has no desire for sex and would rather decorate or do something else. After 30 years married and the kids gone it is now a bit of a disappointment. For both of us.
January 24, 2016 - 9:51amThis Comment
It gets WAY better. Being with the right partner helps as well. You have to be able to speak up and talk about what pleases you. We've been conditioned to not talk about sex because it's shameful. Truth is..... As I've gotten older, it's gotten better because I am no longer embarrassed to say what pleases me and also asking my partner what pleases him.
February 5, 2015 - 5:51pmIt's all about Empowering yourself and speaking up. No more faking orgasms. You are only cheating yourself when you do that and your partner thinks he's doing all the right things. Not So Much!! Being honest is the best way to have a healthy relationship.. .. period.
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Been premenopausal and this is not a fun time. When the menopausal first started my desire was uncontrollable, I even warned my husband. Now my body reacts so differently. One day my body is ready to go the next could be screaming for help like its being abused. That question I guess is hard to answer truthfully. Maybe a year ago I would have said definitely older.
January 24, 2015 - 4:33pmThis Comment
100% agreed! I went thru the experienced, am now 40s, my sex drive much better as kids grown up independently, no disturbances etc. My sex desire superb!
February 14, 2014 - 3:32amThis Comment