i am 23 and my boyfriend is 25. we have been together for 4 months now and he has shown no interest in having sex . we have been out before when we were younger and that was for 1 year but because we were young and inexpedient in relationships we broke apart.now were older we through we would give it another go we have a lot in common and we get along very well.we never fight and we see each other very often but for some reason he dose not want to have sex. we have spoke about it but only once or twice and he give the same answer "He is not ready" he stay an my house 2-3 nights a week we cuddle and kiss then he roles over and goes to sleep. I don't no what the problem is! he dose not even touch me sexually. I don't no what I can do and it is starting to get a bit upsetting.
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Hello Anonymous,
Welcome to EmpowHER. I am glad you reached out to our community for advice. I am glad that you asked this young man why he is not interested in having sex with you. I do not know you or your boyfriend, but I advise you to respect his answer- he is not ready.
He may see you as a friend and not someone he has a sexual interest or attraction to. Give it time. Pressuring him or nagging him about this will only turn him away.
Regards,
July 1, 2016 - 5:14amMaryann
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