Maybe I'm crazy maybe not. My husband and I have been together for 13 years. Ten year anniversary this year. Any ways since we have been together I have fought the porn issue. I thought I won but that didn't happen. He threw out all the porn but then the internet came around. He was spending hours in the bathroom with a laptop. Locked of course. Went thru 3 laptops in 2 years. When they broke he hammered them. Now I have been finding naked pics of females on his phone. I have confronted him about it with the excuse of he's a guy. He is bored at work and thats what he does. I told him that I would send him pics if he would just ask me but he said he has me memorized. I don't know what to think. He says hes not cheating or sexting but why does my mind make me feel otherwise. I just need some healthy advice on how to deal with this.
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I want to stress that his addiction to porn is his problem, and in no way caused by your personal appearance or actions.
I can appreciate its impact on you. A lack of trust will destroy your relationship.
As with any addiction, the person must acknowledge that a problem exists and desire to change. Share your feelings with your husband. Tell him how his behavior makes you feel. Consider counseling, if not as a couple, at least for you.
Regards,August 28, 2014 - 9:53am