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By July 30, 2014 - 11:46am

Ok well last night I was half asleep and my husband gotup and went to the bathroom and didn't come out for three hours and he wasn't showering.Now we have had our fair share of issues with porn and texting other women. Now my question is should I be concerned about the amount of time he was in there or is it just my. Stinkin thinkin that he's either watching videos or txtin girls? Oh and knowing I put on the sexy lingerie for bed why would he do that?

By HERWriter July 30, 2014 - 4:22pm

Hi Gin77,

Thanks so much for your question. 
It might be a good idea to have a conversation with your husband about what's going on. Since you have concerns about videos and texting, make sure you can clearly express your concerns to him without accusing him of wrongdoing. Ask if there is anything you can do on your end to help the relationship, and move forward from there. There may be a simple solution to this.
If it was indeed videos or texting, it may be time to step away from the relationship and consider the big picture. Is this something you are able to overcome with him? Can this problem be resolved? What steps do you need to take to get there?

Hope this helps. Please keep us updated! 

July 30, 2014 - 4:22pm

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