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My fiance hasnt had sex with me for a month?

By March 13, 2014 - 9:52am

this is my predicument right now with my fiance, its like whenever he wants it its fine but i always get excuses like im tired, im not in the mood or he says wel do it later but later comes and hes gone to bed and hes fast asleep! We both went away to see my parents 3weeks ago and since then we have not had sex and to be honest half the time i cant even touch him, its really getting me down because i feel like i have done something wrong and now my confidence in a way has gone down too also as now i feel theres a problem with myself as hes obviously not attracted to me no more. i tried talking about it and he either starts shouting at me for being stupid or he walks off in a huff :( what do i do?

By HERWriter March 13, 2014 - 10:11am

Hi Baileyxox,

I understand how frustrating this must be for you. He might be having a problem with his sex drive. Most of the time it's a very touchy subject for men, and they don't want to talk about it at all. Consider outside factors that may be contributing to his lack of desire for sex: stress? work? These can all weigh on the sex drive, too. 

But overall if something is wrong, you DO need to talk about it. It's important to resolve these conflicts to continue a healthy relationship in (and out) of the sack. 

Here are a couple articles that may also offer some insight:

  • https://www.empowher.com/sex-amp-relationships/content/what-s-killing-your-sexual-relationship
  • https://www.empowher.com/relationships-amp-family/content/keeping-passion-alive-your-relationship

Hope this helps! 

March 13, 2014 - 10:11am

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